Lola’s Lessons - 𝗐𝗂𝗍𝗁 Lola Blakely & Carmen Ely 🔞

{LL S3E11} The Delight of Dayle's Dirty Drollery

Dayle ’DoubleD’ Robyn & her ”dirty” comedy show makes you laugh out loud, cringe, blush, & possibly gag a little, according to reviews. 
Being ”pro-gagging”, Carmen & Lola invite Dayle to learn about her raw, honest & relatable stories she shares on stage leading up to her 12th consecutive annual show. 
What is it about this comedy that has sold out every show for over a decade? Find out on this segment of Lola’s Lessons
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{LL S3E10} Lust Looks a lot like Love

How do we know we’re in love? What does lust feel like? What are the differences between the two? The two tantric coaches, Tara Rose & Annika Lipp explain the differences from both sides of the spectrum.
 

{LL S3E9} Intimacy after Infidelity

Infidelity in a relationship has a range of negative ripple effects but if you’ve worked through the basics of them getting your relationship back on track is possible. Intimacy after infidelity however, is one of the more difficult barriers to overcome. How do we bridge it? Is intimacy with your partner even possible after infidelity? Tracy Ziman, a renowned South African intimacy coach joins Lola & Carmen to discuss this sensitive topic.

(LLL S1E8) Factual Fantasy - Judgement, Jurisdiction & Jealousy in ENM

Sure swinging sounds sexy, but it also has it’s fair share of Judgement, Jurisdiction & Jealousy.
Bella Bills, owner of NeXXXus lifestyle resort, one of South African's top lifestyle clubs, join Lola & KB as they get real & raw on the final episode in season 1 of Lola’s Lifestyle Lectures.
 
*Lola's Lifestyle Lectures goes to production break - Returning with season 2 mid May '24.

{S3E8} The Cheaters Class - Eliminating Infidelity

Kaz, owner of TZEDEK Polygraph Services (a South African polygraph examiner) explains the concept of cheating from all possible perspectives.
Why do people cheat? How do we overcome infidelity when it’s transpired? When is cheating cheating?
Join Carmen & Lola as they explore Kaz’s understanding on how to deal with this conceptual problem.
 
 

[KK S1E8] Butt Stuff - Season Finale

On the final episode of the Pilot season of Kinky Klasses Queen Vee join Lola & Ms Kitten to discuss all aspects of Butt Stuff.
What is pegging and why is it suddenly so popular? How do we explore anal play safely?
Find out on this segment. 
 
*Kinky Klasses breaks for production planning, returning with Season 2 mid May '24
 
 

(S1E7) Swingers Social

Lola & KB chat to the co-founder of ZNights; A site that has combined socials, events, parties & workshops for all walks of life including swingers & all other like minded individuals. 
ZNights is a quality South African community of unique, fantastic, fun, uninhibited people who enjoy life to the fullest, who are into casual dating, social networking, open relationships and alternative lifestyles.
With an extensive amount of social platforms for swingers to connect on, ZNights makes finding quality connections easy, affordable & accessible.
How do we access this community? And what sparked this brain child?
Find out on this segment of Lola’s Lifestyle Lectures

{LL S3E7} Sex & Sensuality

Anne-Marie Clulow-Visser, founder of Lola’s favorite intimacy coaching institute - Intimacy International, join Carmen & Lola to share her knowledge on sensual touch. How can we use sensual touch to enhance our intimacy? How do we get in touch with our own sensuality? Lola & Carmen find out on this segment of Lola’s Lessons

[KK S1E7] The other RACK

What does RACK stand for? What are the risks associated with harder plays? Domme Faye joins Lola and Ms Kitten as they cover the other RACK and play with dice  
 

(LLL S1E6) Meeting vs Mingling

Lola & KB visit Nexxxus, home of PFC at their monthly Pharoahs Fantasy Club party.
 
Why do some lifestylers choose to mingle at a club whilst others prefer to meet at home? 
 
Lola & KB interview Dirt D with his wife Honeybee & the Cinblossom's live from this lavish soiree

{LL S3E6} Electrifying Ecstasy

How do we push the boundaries of our intimate relationship to Ecstasy status? Do we even know what ecstasy is?
On this segment of Lola’s Lessons Carmz & Lola speak to the owner of the iconic Lola Montez