Lola’s Lessons - 𝗐𝗂𝗍𝗁 Lola Blakely & Carmen Ely 🔞

{LL S4E2} Kiss my Kiwi

Are you in an oral dilemma? Don't worry, you're not alone! Receiving or giving oral sex can be scary, but it shouldn't have to be!
 
Join Carmen & Lola as they pull the topic of oral sex for the female genitals apart, for you and themselves to ensure a more meaningful and enjoyable sexual existence. 

(LLL S2E2) Let's swing back to the start

How do we start swinging successfully? The PsycHOTic Wife joins Lola and James (Mr 2Some4Fun) to uncover how to go about starting this journey successfully as she shares her story with them.
 

[KK S2E1] Kute & Kinky

Kinky Klasses kicks off with Season 2 and we have changed our focus!
Come join the Lola and her gorgeous new Co-host Baronista as they speak to Tara Rose and discuss the beauty of incorporating kink into your vanilla 

{LL S4E1} A Subtle Start to Sex

Initiating sex can be intimidating. How do we overcome this? Lets take a look at some subtle points to starting the flame
 

(LLL S2E1) Conversations on the Playground

You can't enter the playground without understanding it's rules; Why would you swing without understanding the kind of discussions needing to take place beforehand, how to communication effectively and how to find the right topics for conversations  necessary to get you swinging ready? 
Lola's back and comes baring gifts - A pair of hosts and a Dr?!  Where's KB? 
Join your favorite night-time production team, as they kick off Season 2 of Lifestyle Lectures... your favorite sexy swingers ed show!

{LL S3E12} Season Finale - The Carmen Cut

An epic season finale of Lola's Lessons S3! 
Carmen interviews host Lola, reveals her secret notes and presses all the studio buttons! What could possibly go wrong? 
It's been a fun season, a meaningful season but most importantly an educational season (that's why we're here mos). Lola and Carmen love to educate and be educated in the topic of sex-positivity ❤️

{LL S3E11} The Delight of Dayle's Dirty Drollery

Dayle ’DoubleD’ Robyn & her ”dirty” comedy show makes you laugh out loud, cringe, blush, & possibly gag a little, according to reviews. 
Being ”pro-gagging”, Carmen & Lola invite Dayle to learn about her raw, honest & relatable stories she shares on stage leading up to her 12th consecutive annual show. 
What is it about this comedy that has sold out every show for over a decade? Find out on this segment of Lola’s Lessons
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{LL S3E10} Lust Looks a lot like Love

How do we know we’re in love? What does lust feel like? What are the differences between the two? The two tantric coaches, Tara Rose & Annika Lipp explain the differences from both sides of the spectrum.
 

{LL S3E9} Intimacy after Infidelity

Infidelity in a relationship has a range of negative ripple effects but if you’ve worked through the basics of them getting your relationship back on track is possible. Intimacy after infidelity however, is one of the more difficult barriers to overcome. How do we bridge it? Is intimacy with your partner even possible after infidelity? Tracy Ziman, a renowned South African intimacy coach joins Lola & Carmen to discuss this sensitive topic.

(LLL S1E8) Factual Fantasy - Judgement, Jurisdiction & Jealousy in ENM

Sure swinging sounds sexy, but it also has it’s fair share of Judgement, Jurisdiction & Jealousy.
Bella Bills, owner of NeXXXus lifestyle resort, one of South African's top lifestyle clubs, join Lola & KB as they get real & raw on the final episode in season 1 of Lola’s Lifestyle Lectures.
 
*Lola's Lifestyle Lectures goes to production break - Returning with season 2 mid May '24.

{S3E8} The Cheaters Class - Eliminating Infidelity

Kaz, owner of TZEDEK Polygraph Services (a South African polygraph examiner) explains the concept of cheating from all possible perspectives.
Why do people cheat? How do we overcome infidelity when it’s transpired? When is cheating cheating?
Join Carmen & Lola as they explore Kaz’s understanding on how to deal with this conceptual problem.